No.10 Put some style in your shoes
"For some reason, the first thing I notice in a man is his shoes. But it’s not to see how expensive or new they are. I think shoes or sneakers say a lot about a guy. I love when a guy’s wearing Jordans. I’m not exactly the biggest fan of those pointy Aldo shoes. I never really understood those."I am not one to care about body type. But I definitely would like a guy to be taller than me, because I hate when I wear heels and I get complaints like 'ugh, you’re too tall.' I want someone who isn’t going to break if he picks me up. But you really just have to be able to make me laugh and feel comfortable around you to earn major points."
No.9 Be confident, not cocky
"I’d like to hear confidence. When I look at a guy, the first impression I get is what he says. The first thing he says. If he says something like, 'H-h-hi! My name is David,' it’s not going to give a good impression. It’s always good to think as you approach a person that they’re human beings just like you are, and that you have absolutely nothing to lose. So it doesn’t hurt to go up there and introduce yourself."Also, try not making a girl feel like she’s lucky to be with you. If someone comes up to me and goes, 'Hey, a lot of girls here are hitting on me, but I made my way across to talk to you,' I’d say, 'Go back to those girls.' It comes off kind of immature.
"If a girl doesn't like you for who you are, she isn't worth your time. If you have to change to be with her, you are deceiving both yourself and her."
No.8 Don't be intimidated
"I never thought I intimidated guys until I started to get remarks from friends who felt that way before they knew me so well. Don‘t judge a person’s character based on looks. That beautiful intimidating lady that you run into coincidentally every other day might be the one thinking you’re too intimidating to talk to, so man up and say hello."I had a crush on this kid in high school. We were both really smart kids. I was kind of a nerd. A few years after we graduated, we ran into each other, and he goes, 'I have to tell you something!' I said, 'Me first!' I told him I had a huge crush on him in high school and that I didn’t like his girlfriend, because he started dating some girl that was very mean to him. He said, 'That’s because I always had a crush on you, but I gave up.' He never tried."
No.7 Don't use cheesy pickup lines
"If you’re not the most suave guy and you want someone to notice you, don't try pickup lines. The best contact comes in the spur of the moment. Sometimes it’s most likely a remark, a joke or a clever interaction, depending on the circumstances."Eye contact is not very easy, especially with me, because I look away. I am shy. You can’t tell, but I am. So the best thing to do is speak up. For example, you see a girl at the market and you think she’s pretty. You realize she has green apples in her basket or she’s picking green apples. Grab an apple, walk up to her and say, 'Hey, you dropped this.' She might tell you, 'Oh, I didn’t know' or 'I didn’t.' And that’ll give you an excuse to say, 'Well, I just wanted a reason to say hi or hear your voice,' and that girl will feel absolutely flattered.
"Me and my friends all agree. And by friends, I mean Miss Universe, Miss Puerto Rico… (laughs)."
No.6 Maintain good hygiene
"No matter what, when a guy says hi, he can look like Tom Cruise, but he can all of a sudden turn into something from Lord of The Rings. Make sure you visit the dentist occasionally. And always carry those Listerine patches. You’d be surprised how well they work."It does not matter how you look; if you smell good, a girl would want to sit next to you. Sometimes it’s like, 'Why are you sitting next to Larry?' 'He smells so good.' And Larry would be a ninth grader. So I would say Armani Code by Giorgio Armani is definitely a plus."
No.5 Try again
"If a man keeps trying, that means I’m not just any woman that he’s interested in -- I must be special. It shows that he cares. But trying doesn’t mean calling 50 times a day. And if you know that a girl means no, then no means no. Let’s say you asked for her number and she turned you down. And you know she works at Starbucks because that’s where you met her. Send her flowers the next day and say 'the guy in the blue shirt.' Simple things like that can go a long way."No.4 Don't shower her with gifts
"I’ve had rich men in my life who thought they can flatter me with gifts. To me, that comes across as an insult. You’re making it seem as if you can buy me. But if someone is educated, smart and has a great personality, success is almost guaranteed. I am all about education and personality. I want to feel comfortable with the person I’m with. I want to be able to wake up in the morning with bad hair and he’d still be able to make me feel beautiful because he’s got a great personality."No.3 Compliment her sincerely
"There’s a limit to everything. Women like food, water and compliments. But when you keep saying them one after the other, it’s going to seem like a bad pickup line. Ask her a question about her family. And while she’s talking, say, 'I’m sorry, I just... You’re so beautiful. OK, keep going.' Mix it up like spices. Not one after the other. Otherwise, it’s going to come across as desperate."No.2 Speak and listen earnestly
"Be real. I like to hear when a man talks about his family and his personal life. It means he’s open and he’s a family guy. I also want him to get to know me. Women love to talk. The best conversation is when the other person talks a lot. So, if you ask, and ask, and ask, she’s going to walk away thinking 'Wow! We had a great conversation.' A girl loves a man who listens, and that’s very odd to find. Don’t just look for words. Listen to her ideas, thoughts and emotions and make sure you get them."No.1 Remember that nobody is out of your league
"If there is a guaranteed way to miss out on a potential date, it’s by considering yourself to be out of their league. By doing so, you’re effectively convincing yourself that you’re not good enough for them. Why would they think you’re in their 'league' when you can’t be confident in your own self-worth?"You’d be surprised how many great women or men end up with the wrong mate because the right person was too intimidated to try."
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