Sometimes it’s the smallest thing that makes a lasting impression. A single smart comment or a couple of small
gestures
can really impress a woman, while an offensive remark or a display of
carelessness can utterly doom your chances. A woman will decide
relatively quickly whether or not you’re
date-worthy,
and all the little things you do or don’t do will help her make up her
mind. With these realities in mind, we’ve put together this list of the
top 10 simple ways to impress a woman. Nothing complicated here. Nothing
time-consuming or exceptionally difficult. But this list of
habits, comments and behaviors could make the difference between getting her number and getting a dirty
look.
No.10 Look her in the eye
It can be tempting to look a beautiful woman up and down, and the more beautiful she is, the harder it is to concentrate on the
conversation.
Just remember, if she catches you staring at her chest when she’s
telling you how much her mom means to her, you’ll look like a creep.
No.9 Be well groomed
Scraggly
facial hair styles
and even a hint of body odor will kill your chances with women. Women
want their men to be well groomed. They want them to look and smell good
all the time. That doesn’t mean you necessarily have to be
clean-shaven, but any facial hair you do have should be well maintained.
Think about it: You judge them based on the way they look. Why wouldn’t
they do the same with you?
No.8 Help her with her coat
If you’re trying to come up with simple ways to impress
women, you might think about the kinds of things your grandfather used
to do. Women love old-school displays of
chivalry.
Helping her put on her coat is a great example. It’s a kind, courteous
act that’s not so common anymore. That’s why it will help you stand out.
It’s also a good way to increase her comfort level with you as it
allows you to get close to her without getting too close.
No.7 Socialize with her friends
When deciding whether or not to ask a woman out on a date, you probably evaluate her personality and her
looks,
among other things like her sense of humor and her intelligence. Well,
women do those things too, but they also think about our potential as
partners. And one of the things that speaks to our potential is our
ability to fit into her social network. Women are attracted to likable,
social, charming men, the kind of guys their friends and families will
love. So, engage in conversation with her friends even as you’re working
your magic on her. Impress them and you’ll impress her. Just make sure
it’s clear that she’s the one you’re interested in.
No.6 Ignore your phone
Nothing says, “You’re not that important....” like taking a call from someone else or checking a text in the middle of a
conversation.
That’s why ignoring your phone is one of our top 10 simple ways to
impress women. The culture of texting has gotten way out of hand. Too
many men think it’s perfectly acceptable to take a phone call or fire
off an e-mail while you’re on a date or in the middle of a conversation.
Well, we have news for you: It’s uncivil. When you’re talking to a
woman, let her see you silence your phone or turn it off completely --
show her she has your undivided attention.
No.5 Ask her questions
When you’re getting to know a woman you should do your best
to make her comfortable. That means steering a conversation toward a
subject she’s comfortable talking about -- like her. Just about every
woman likes to talk about herself. It’s a subject on which she has a lot
of expertise, after all. Asking her questions about her past and her
favorite things will allow her to open up and feel comfortable, while
simultaneously showing her that you’re interested in more than just her
looks.
No.4 Open doors
Another entry on our list of the top 10 simple ways to
impress women: Open the door for her. Opening the door for a woman is a
classic gentlemanly
gesture.
The otherwise admirable push for gender equality has largely eliminated
acts of chivalry like this one. Do your part to bring chivalry back by
opening the door for her.
No.3 Compliment the way she looks
So here’s the thing: you want to give her a compliment, but
you want it to seem sincere. Thus, you need something a little more
original than, “You have incredible eyes.” Give this a shot: Compliment
the way she looks in her outfit. Say something like, “You look great in
that dress.” It’s a great way of telling her she looks hot without
rerunning the same old compliment and it also communicates that you’re
attracted to her in a way that, “Cool jacket!” does not.
No.2 Ask for advice
Whether you’re apartment-hunting or trying to set your buddy
up on a blind date, women are impressed when you ask them for advice. It
shows her that you value other people’s opinions -- in particular, her
opinion. Be careful not to come off as clueless here, though; you don’t
want to act like you know nothing. You also don’t want to put her on the
spot or make her feel uncomfortable. When asking for advice, get her
perspective on a limited set of options. For example, does she think you
should move into a townhouse or a loft? This kind of question allows
her to easily express an opinion, and hopefully sparks a more extensive
conversation.
No.1 Compliment her positivity
Telling a woman she gives off a “happy” vibe will make her
feel good. That’s the vibe most people want to give off all the time. It
also allows you to then ask her about the things in her life that make
her so happy, which will make her feel even better, positive feelings
that she’ll ultimately associate with talking to you. This kind of a
comment centering on
positivity is another one of our top 10 simple ways to impress women.
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